What's wrong with the French mindset? Jealousy, ignorance and expats
Mike Codeur
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I posted a tweet yesterday. 61 comments. 323 likes. 25,000 views. In one day.
The topic? How French people react to what's happening in Dubai.
And what I read in the replies confirmed what I've been observing for years.
The problem
One influencer does something stupid in Dubai. Instead of pointing at that person, the collective reaction is:
- "They deserve it"
- "All expats are like that"
- "They should have stayed in France"
People caricature all expats because of one person. They celebrate other people's misfortune.
What it reveals
This isn't justice. It's a toxic cocktail:
→ Jealousy disguised as "justice" — "They earn too much, it's not normal" is the national mantra
→ Projected frustration — those who don't dare leave resent those who did
→ Complete ignorance of reality — most expats are regular workers, not influencers
The deeper issue
In France, financial success is suspicious. Moving abroad is seen as betrayal. Entrepreneurship is socially risky before being financially risky.
It's a collective mindset that pushes ambitious people out. And instead of asking why they leave, people celebrate when things go wrong.
My experience
I've been living in Bali for years. I left France to build my life differently. Not to dodge taxes. Not to show off on Instagram.
To live on my own terms.
And every time I talk about expatriation, I get the same reactions:
- The curious ones (minority)
- The aggressive ones (loud majority)
- The passive-aggressive ones ("good for you but I prefer real life")
The question
Can France ever celebrate those who try instead of rejoicing when they fail?
Can we separate one clueless influencer from millions of hard-working expats?
I'm asking sincerely. Because this mindset is exactly what holds back innovation, entrepreneurship and ambition in this country.
📩 I talk about this regularly on X — mkc.sh/twitter?utm_source=blog